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Originally Posted by eskielover
I usually try to use my energy coming up with a solution instead of complaining. Problem with complaining is that it is like picking a scab on a sore. It keeps the sore a sore & accomplishes nothing in either the healing or solution process. I am a logical problem solver. I may express my concerns about a problem to see what others might be thinking about it....then I go to work at finding what action I need to take to make a difference regarding it in my life. Sometimes others join in, sometimes not. Only time I will give up is when I have deemed the cost is too great & outweighs the benefit. (Dealing with this ? in legal action against my EX)
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Yeah makes sense, complaining is usually more acceptable if there is a solution being discussed.