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Originally Posted by weaverbeaver
Thank you both for your replies, my t definitely had good intentions. I think that’s why it hurt because she really thought about everything so much except how I would feel afterwards. I cried because I couldn’t believe it and I have been crying ever since.
It was such a lovely jesters that it really touched me and made me realise how little people in my life care about me and it hurt me so much.
I would like to talk to t about it but I don’t want her to feel about it and how I felt and how upset I was. My t just thought she was doing something nice and she didn’t expect me to burst out crying. I feel so bad for feeling like this.
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Sometimes these moments are ultimately useful in helping us figure out what we need? Clearly it means a lot to you to be celebrated in this way and maybe your family doesn't care enough or maybe that just isn’t their “love language.” Maybe they’d respond well to being told that this is the type of thing you’d appreciate. Or maybe this is the moment you start to seek out people who are more able to love you the way you want to be loved?
It’s painful to realize what you wish you had but don’t. But what you’re describing doesn’t sound like longing for something impossible, it sounds like it could be a turning point.