I agree with @ThunderGoddess, things change after marriage. I know my husband tried a lot harder before we were married and treated me a lot better. After we were married he acted like he expected me to turn into Betty Crocker and cook for him. We were both working the same hours and making the same money, so why should i also cook for him? He spent all his money AND all MY money on himself! Why would i spoil him with pot roast when i was his financial and sexual slave? Don't get married IRL i advise women. Men expect you to "take care of" them. What, do they think we are their mothers? They want a mother in the kitchen and a wh_re in the bedroom! All for a brief courtship, a tiny piece of gold and diamond and a ceremony. So: NOT!!!