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Originally Posted by Jennifer 1967
I知 having an off day. Sad, tearful, emotional. I guess it is to be expected. I found out the hard way that my brother has incontinence both ways and it was almost more than I could take. I知 doing my best but it痴 not enough and I知 not qualified for all of his needs. Tomorrow will be better. Today is tough. It didn稚 help that I had a disagreement with my daughter.
My sister and bil came over to help us clear off the back porch. They did a great job. I知 so covered up with caregiving that the house is suffering. I知 glad she is willing to step up and help.
I floated for awhile today while the sun was out. It was nice. The water has turned an exhilarating degree of cold. I値l float each day until the pool closes next weekend.
I hope everyone has a good week ahead.  |
Oh Jennifer
I'm glad that your Sister and BIL can help but you really need help with your Brothers daily needs. I am not sure what insurance he has but many will help pay for a CNA to come and help him with bathing getting dressed ADL ( activities of daily life)
I did home health care for years. Some people I was with 8 hours a day some 4 or 2.. Most all of my Patients had family that took care of them. But my being there allowed them to literally leave the house or go to there room and rest or whatever. Just get the hell away.
Is his caseworker trying daily to find him a bed in a nursing home? Not sure how often you hear from He/she but I'd start calling.... Alot.. Squeeky wheel !
I'm glad you went for a float. Sorry about an issue with you and M. Hope that is cleared up quickly.
Is your T aware of the enormous strain taking care of your brother? It might help in getting some help with him.. I would ask for sure.. A letter stating that your not capable of 24/7 care.
Keep floating and carve out lots of time for self care
