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Old May 19, 2008, 02:37 AM
AllyKat AllyKat is offline
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Member Since: May 2008
Location: Gresham, Oregon, USA
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Percent Language Score
10% Words of Affirmation 3
27% Quality Time 8
7% Receiving Gifts 2
20% Acts of Service 6
37% Physical Touch 11

Your highest score indicates your primary love language. Your second highest score indicates your secondary love language. If two scores are identical, you are bi-lingual(you have two Primary love languages). If the scores of your primary language and your secondary language are close(for example, 10 and 9 respectively), it indicates both are important to you. The highest possible score for any one love language is 12.

Having a clear picture of your primary and secondary love languages will explain much of your past behavior. Think back over the past and ask yourself, "What have I most often requested of my spouse?" Chances are your answer will lie within the scope of your primary and secondary love languages. You have been requesting that which would meet your deepest need for emotional love. Your requests, however, might have come across as nagging or criticizing and thus drove your spouse away.

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I don't know... I guess I already knew this... beccause physical signs of affection are the most lacking in my relationship.

~Ally
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You know that feeling you get when you are sure the world wont be there tomorrow, as you hop in bed and imagine the rest of the world crumbling away behind you while you sleep into unconcious indifference? No? Oh, maybe it's just me then.