Well the sad thing is we don't truly decide the end. We can decide to enjoy the time we have. My mom is 72 she's ready to go but lives her life until she's called home. She's trying to live her best life. Healthy, fit, takes care of herself. She wants to be healthy until the end. My dad was like that too. He died at 64. He still wanted to live but it was his time to go. We all have our time.