Well, my T went away for a 3 day weekend, but luckily it didn't affect my session. I did worry about him a little and hoped he remembered to use sunscreen.

I feel for ya, MzJelloFluff. I hope the time passes quickly and that you do OK in your T's absence. I think I stay connected to my T especially when I need him. When I am doing just fine in my life (ha, how often is that?), I don't stay as connected, but because I feel OK, I don't miss the connectedness so much. If that makes sense.... I'm not sure there's anything in that qualifies as a useful idea on how to keep the connection alive....

Hang in there.