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But to avoid the issue, to avert ones gaze, is to continue to live in fear.

</div></font></blockquote><font class="post">That's a problem for me. I try to get out from under that. But looking dead on is scary too, but it has greater rewards than averting one's eyes. I have to keep telling myself that...

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I'm sure part of it transcends transference.

</div></font></blockquote><font class="post">I think you're right.

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Who wouldn't fall for that?

</div></font></blockquote><font class="post">Yep.

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And maybe it was him and maybe it was me
And the boundaries merge for me.

</div></font></blockquote><font class="post">I have been there too. When it happens, it is almost wondrous. Then we are back to ourselves, separate (and that's OK too). I like to keep it in my pocket, a remarkable thing to take out and recall from time to time--like remembering one of the 7 wonders of the world you had the great fortune to visit one time.

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Posting is hard

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