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ArtleyWilkins
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Default Sep 15, 2021 at 07:01 AM
 
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Originally Posted by SummerTime12 View Post


I think @Rive. might be right that his messages are ambiguous. On the one hand, he always says we’ll never ever have sex, but on the other hand, he responds to my overly sexual questions when I’m manic (which I know is my fault for asking) and tells me things like he’s aroused, he thinks about having sex with me, that I have an attractive body, that he’d want to see my nudes but it would be a bad idea, that having sex would feel “unbelievably good,” that he’s felt tempted at times when I’m coming on to him.



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This is concerning. This therapist has options about how to respond that are much more professional and boundaried. He actively chooses almost the least boundaried response. He feeds your mania rather than working with you to keep it in check.
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Thanks for this!
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