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I am quite hurt about a woman in my ZOOM IRL support group who said i was being judgmental. It was after i had made some remarks about human nature that i have learned thru reading and find very compelling.
It is true that i was not using *i* statements and was maybe being overly intellectual. That's not appropriate in support groups where you are supposed to speak from the heart, not the head.
I'm in such pain to have been publicly criticized like that. The woman relates like a mildly developmentally delayed person. But anyone can speak the truth.
I *thought* that what i said was worthwhile but maybe more for a university psych discussion group, not a support group. I feel so wounded, but i won't indulge it or reject it and it will pass.
I feel very alone with my knowledge of human nature and evolutionary biology and wonder where i would be welcome to talk about such things. Obviously NOT a support group. Any ideas?
I don't really feel safe in that support group now.
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