I’m wondering what the soft, luminous glowing light colour hair in my dreams may signify. The obvious, yet unsatisfactory answer would be something to do with angels - but even discarding the angel aspect, which seems unfitting either way, I can’t come up with a plausible dream-interpretation based link between you and my biological mother, especially since those dreams were so many years apart. If anything, I see you as somewhere between a mother and archetypal cool spinster aunt figure, rather than a metaphorical angel. As for my biological mother, I have mixed feelings, these days mostly pity and sadness.