Welcome! So Sorry things are being so hard also! Hugs. i agree with the wise and wonderful CANDC especially about meds and exercise if you want to try it obviously. It does seem like a difficult situation but at least he's trying to improve. Definitely keep an eye on him and if things start to get unbearable for you do let him know also. i believe it is your right to talk obviously. m. Please do not give up and do try your best to resist. If things do get worse do not hesitate to let him know that your relationship is at stake, if it is i believe. i Hope things will improve really soon for everyone. Be Kind. Be Generous. Love. Sending many Safe, warm hugs to BOTH you, @Millie7, your Family, your Friends and ALL of your Loved Ones! Keep fighting and keep rocking NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS, OK?!