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Old Sep 19, 2021, 06:58 AM
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Mine does not, with one exception: Something came up about age. He's 7 years older than me. And he said, "I'm a lot older than you are, honey." It bothered me at the time, partly because I thought he didn't know my (approximate) age and also the "honey" thing felt a bit condescending the way he said it. We had an email exchange, and he said it sounded very different in his head and realized when he read it, that it didn't sound so good. And also that being almost 50 felt much older to him than early 40s, but that was about him, not me. He has not used anything like "honey" since then.
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