Hi Candy....

I'm sorry that your feeling hurt..you have indeed spent a considerable amount of time here and that alone is very helpfull...but I have gone and read some of your posts and you are a compassionate, kind and thoughtfull person...priceless really...

I know it is hard to feel unappreciated...just doesn't seem right somehow..

I just finished a roof for a fellow in my program...I told him all he needed to do was buy the materials and I would put the roof up for him...He was gratefull and expressed it....

I just saw him and his wife yesterday,,,and not a word from her...almost like I was a transparency..It hurt a little bit but then I stood back and reminded myself that I put that roof up because it was the next right thing to do...not for any glory or thankyous...just because it was the best thing to do...

And that ended it for me...

I admire your courage for sharing your hurt...

Lenny