That's a great question. We tried to do couples therapy and it caused more issues then good. They told us to individually see therapy first. She went for about 5-6 months and stopped but I was still required to go, but ended up liking to go. Gave me an outlet to discuss my feelings and thoughts. She says it's not anything she needs help with and that I am the cause of the lack of her desire since I want sex all the time. I don't even express the amount of times I want sex when I am feeling good. So for me once a day is a compromise.