How exactly would you have approached your partner?

Supposed your partner who had been supporting you and caring for you for years, spent his entire income, time, energy and his sanity on you. Not only that, worked day and night to bring home the paycheck and do all of the household chores while you sit around and do nothing. After having taken care of you in the hospital sacrificing weeks from work which ended up nearly getting you evicted, you’ve both are in deep need of help. What to do?

Kill your partner with a sword?
Tell him that he’s the worst provider?
Comfort him, offer support and have both of you work together?

There’s only one bed available in the apartment, you were asleep in the chair. It’s uncomfortable. You had allowed your partner to sleep in the bed because it’s uncomfortable for him to sleep in the chair too. You now wanted to sleep in the bed. He was just now up and was on his phone or tablet looking at something. What to do?

Yell at him to get out of the bed so you could sleep? Also, ignore that he just tried to greet you in an affectionate way, because f him, right?
Glomp onto him and kiss him and tell him you would like to sleep on the bed, if that is ok?