So Sorry for what is going on! Please Do not give up! Hugs. i agree with the wise and wonderful Tonorae about wishing i could help more but i also don't live in the UK. i hope someone else will be able to help at least. Perhaps some women shelters may be what you're looking for? Please Do whas is possible. You deserve an happy Life. Perhaps try to suggest couple counseling if he's willing to listen and try also. i hope things will improve really soon for everyone. i apologize if this post isn't really useful but i do want things to improve. Let us know if there's any way we can help obviously. Sending many Safe, warm hugs to BOTH you, @Jessii, your Family, your Friends and ALL of your Loved Ones! Keep fighting and keep rocking NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS, OK?!