I haven't told her anything about attraction with her, but I feel it's overdue. Having BPD I'm just terrified of her leaving me.
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Originally Posted by LonesomeTonight
You don't need to share all your feelings at once or the intensity of them. And you could just ask her thoughts on transference in general. Even just, "Hey, I was reading this thing on a forum about transference and was wondering your thoughts on it." Sort of touch on the topic, see how she reacts.
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That's a good idea, just to see how she reacts. I'll probably start with that. I know she'll want to know why I'm asking, which is when I'll tell her I have transference.
Thanks!