Hey again! Good to hear you're hanging in there!

As for changing rules, my T has done that sometimes. Most recently during our phone calls, which he'd always said would last 10 minutes, he started to go down to 8 or 7 minutes (consistently, not just once). Discussing it is good, I support that. My go to argument is that he always claims we're working as a team, so if we do that, we have to discuss changes like that as a team, he can't just decide without me.