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Originally Posted by stahrgeyzer
I haven't heard from my parts in a few days but just asked them what their fear is if they aren't able to do their job. One of them answered saying they fear being alone if they don't do their job. The other question, is their anything you need right now. The part said, Love.
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Wow that is amazing you get answers like that. My therapist does his own IFS therapy with an IFS Therapist and he says he asks his parts questions and he gets a clear cut answer back. Im like.... REALLY?? I must be so disconnected to my parts. Sometimes I will get a word that flashes in my head or images with fly by real fast and I can not grasp on to them. He is not sure why I am having such a hard time with communicating with parts. I am frustrated and I am sure he is too.
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When a child’s emotional needs are not met and a child is repeatedly hurt and abused, this deeply and profoundly affects the child’s development. Wanting those unmet childhood needs in adulthood. Looking for safety, protection, being cherished and loved can often be normal unmet needs in childhood, and the survivor searches for these in other adults. This can be where survivors search for mother and father figures. Transference issues in counseling can occur and this is normal for childhood abuse survivors.
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