@Mountaindewed, it's so sad that you don't have the level of support you deserve during this crucial time. I must say that my guess is that your feelings towards that therapist could be justified. Not all ultra conservatives are "anti" diversity (or any better way of saying that), but many are. And some, terribly so. Certainly her Facebook combined with her reactions towards you would be worrisome to me.

You truly deserve the right support. Please be particular. It might even be worth considering branching "out of network", at least temporarily. That would widen the options.