So I saw this afghan pattern that inspired me and I would love to make it for you to celebrate all the good work we've done over the past almost-10 years. I don't know if you'd accept something that 'big' though. It wouldn't cost me anything money-wise, because my friend gave me that big tub of yarn awhile back that she had inherited from her grandma and didn't want anymore. It would take some time and skill, but... crocheting is also very calming for me and I love doing it. I think I'll start it and do like the first 10 rounds and see how that would look as a pillow - that would be a 'smaller' thing that you'd more likely be okay with.