I think the desire to hurt others who hurt us is natural and understandable. Yes, I feel this way, but I’m still of the mindset that it’s better not to act on it, however - in no small part because some of these people get even more pleasure from seeing you get so angry, so you end up even worse off.
I get how frustrating and unjust it can feel, though, not being able to make them “see” what they’ve done to you/others.