I was involved w a man who’s married but left his wife and son for faraway job - says he just felt like it, for $/selfishness/ freedom, and his family cried for him to stay and he ignored. In the meantime, he told me, he asked his old GF to move w him instead, then went back on it. Says His wife briefly thew him out & his ex tried to commit suicide bc of him. Says if he can leave his little boy then he can leave anyone and won’t feel badly. Says he’s a sociopath and feels nothing. Says he can’t be in a relationship bc he’s paralyzed by missing his son so much, but he’s the one who left

-randomly tells me he can’t have sex bc he’s still married and feels guilty and he’s never getting divorced (used to lead me to think he was), or that he still loves his wife, or doesn’t want sex to have any power over him … and in exact same convo, sexts me

-randomly went away and ignored Valentines Day weekend and when I said I was bummed, told me “I always told you we were only something casual,” then went into a depressed monologue about he’s poison to everyone

-Told me he’d never want to, or even could be, in another relationship bc there’d always be expectations he couldn’t meet and he will never be able to fully be w anyone

-would say passionate things in text but always in person was cold and detached/ left right after sex, never stayed the night, if I ever put an affectionate hand on him he’d remove it. Two different people in text and person. Might interrupt me midsentence in person, staring at wall, to ask me for sexual favor.

-After telling me we would only ever be friends, tried to make me feel badly for seeing other men. Called me disloyal after he’d told me multiple times to move on. I said but you’re still married and said we were only friends, and he’d just say well I guess I must not be special

-said stuff about how he wanted some other woman and they were close in the past, later I saw she defriended / blocked him on social media. Then suddenly he’s going to a party w her and bringing his son allegedly buT at very same time sexting me and making plans to meet up with me again for sex

-When I talked to his wife first she accused me of making up the account w screenshots, then said ok whatever he’s playing you too; let me know when you make it publicly official