I received an email from him that he wanted me to come back. I told him no. He threatened to sent the police on me for "spousal abandonment" even claiming I'm "abusing" him. I'll be talking to the police this Monday. Explaining that I was at a behavioral health because of him, at domestic violence shelter because of him, I tried to divorce him, I ordered a restraining order against him and I suffered severe abuse from him for nine years along with his narcissistic delusion that I'm the abuse. I am not going back and I do not think the police will arrest me for getting away from my abuser.