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FridayT
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I received an email from him that he wanted me to come back. I told him no. He threatened to sent the police on me for "spousal abandonment" even claiming I'm "abusing" him. I'll be talking to the police this Monday. Explaining that I was at a behavioral health because of him, at domestic violence shelter because of him, I tried to divorce him, I ordered a restraining order against him and I suffered severe abuse from him for nine years along with his narcissistic delusion that I'm the abuse.
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Be careful with your expectations from the police. Even now in the 21st century about half the cops do not take DV as seriously as they should. The reason I believe that is I also used to volunteer with the DV response team where I go to a location where DV has occured- it could be right away where I am in the driveway talking with them- or help women get into hiding, find resources and recovery or just be emotional support for all the court stuff etc. I personally would leave the behavioral health hospital stay out of all convo's with police. THEY WILL think differently about you. They will judge you. People with MI's already have enough trouble being taken seriously, combined with judgement because of it and the DV situation I worry he is going to use this to flip the script on you.
Can you just completely block him and ignore him an his threats while you get legal advice?
If your husband is truly a legit narcisist he will be able to play the cops like a fiddle. He will prey on your emotions attempting to elicit an irrational outburst. He gaslights. What happened with the order of protection? Legally what was the outcome?
What do you mean by "tried to divorce him?" (these are all questions that an ignorant insensitive person might ask)[/B][/SIZE][/FONT]