Transference T: I knew you weren’t going to work with me again. But I figured I’d just have my mom email you. I don’t know why I wanted her to since I don’t want to do telehealth anyways. You sent a gentle response back and said your case load is over filling and you are are also not comfortable working with me again because we weren’t making progress because of the eating disorder thing that you are not comfortable working with. But I’m glad you remember me and our relationship.

I did hopefully find a new therapist today who can meet all 3 of my needs. Trans. Autism. And ED’s. So I’m hoping this will work out.

And there is no way I’m allowing my last T to communicate with this new one. I spilled my guts to her about a whole lot of stuff I don’t want anyone else knowing unless I’m the one telling them. In general allowing a therapist to talk to your new one is not really a good choice.