Dear T,
Thanks for being understanding today. I especially appreciate your understanding about how my seeing you sick a few weeks ago made me realize your vulnerability. Your explanation of people realizing things aren't permanent helped. And your saying how it wasn't ridiculous.

Also, it occurred to me that maybe you're thinking of "infraction" more with its usage in sports. Like a neutral zone infraction in football isn't really that big of a deal compared to other penalties. So it sounded harsh to me, but may have been more like no big deal to you. I sort of wanted to email you that, then thought I'd just tell you Wednesday.

And now I want tapenade...
Love,
LT