Hi! You are more than welcome to jump in with your own realizations on my threads! I learn more that way too.
I have shared it with him… his response was along the lines of “Oh, Omers, Why can’t you just feel safe, why do you have to make sense of everything. I hope some day your brain is able to take a break and just let things be”.
Typing it out is feels very dismissive but the tone and non-verbals were very warm and a little playful. Some of his reaction may also be because if I had to venture a guess what he self disclosed that brought this revelation to me is probably the thing he is most ashamed of in his life that he still struggles to find peace with. And, honestly, I can’t imagine too many other T’s in his position that would share what he did. BTW it had nothing to do with his profession or clients.