I am so glad you found such great Ts who are able to meet your needs.

I grew up in a family that just didnt hug our show affection physically. Plus men that did use touch did so in abusive ways. As an adult asking for or appraching people for a hug was not an option. I feared people would only hug me because I asked but did not want to. Also those that did hug me I was afraid that I was gross san did not want to.

Both my Ts initiated hugs. In the veginning they always asked. I know the are safe. It is their way of telling me they care and I am still good enough regardless of what I tell them.