((((((freewill))))))

is it OK if I cry with you?

You're so brave....not very many people could have gone through what you did and come to this result.

Though my mom was my primary abuser, my dad did some too, and my mom did nothing...at all....ever....to stop it.....and while I have forgiven her for what she did to me (I think, sometimes, anyway)....I have not forgiven her for standing there watching while "the other stuff" happened....and I don't know if I can, now or ever.

I wish you peace and I admire your courage. In one post you taught me an enormous lesson, and I thank you.



Candy