I have worked on a few things over the past few days. I researched a laundry service that is free pickup and next day delivery for $1 per pound to free up my time and avoid urine soaked clothes. I’ve set up groceries and medication being delivered and I’ve set up a “Care A Van” transportation system to transport my brother to his appointments this month (9 so far). It costs $5 round trip. I’ll send him with a voice activated recorder. I’ll take him to the critical appointments like neurology, kidney and endocrinology but the others are routine.

I’ve listed an ad on Care.com for a housekeeper and for respite caregiving. I plan to take off 10/17-10/24. I’ll leave town if I need to. I’m going to meet with mom and brother today to discuss this. Fingers crossed. They’ll need to understand that I’m quite serious and firm about this. My sister will have to step in. I’m excited about the time off. I’m making all kinds of plans.

Thanks @Innerzone for helping me see I’ll have to make bold moves here. I can’t count on my family to protect me.