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Old Oct 05, 2021, 01:17 PM
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Like I already mentioned, I'm concerned how the two instructors will handle this situation moving forward. Their non-response so far is a HUGE red flag for me. It makes me think:
  • they have no conflict resolution skills
  • don't care
  • think if they ignore this issue it will go away
  • will also active passive aggress with me next week when the next class is
  • will take her side and act inappropriate with me as their student somehow
I wonder if the instructors just have a different idea of what bullying is. Some people believe that in order for it to be bullying there has to be an ongoing pattern of abuse . I wonder if that is where they are coming from?
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How should I prepare for next week's class? I already messaged both of the instructors and they won't respond, which makes me leery. I don't want this classmate bully to deter me from completing this online course that I already prepaid for and can't get a refund if I stop attending it.

Why do some adults act this way? She had multiple ways she could have dealt with not liking me: ignore me being the best way.
I am not saying you shouldnt have messaged the instructors but maybe since this is the first they are hearing about it means its not harmful?
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