Actually, that's not completely true. I think that...truthfully, of course I don't know for sure if he is a covert narc. I thought about it a day or so ago. I was reminded of how much we enjoyed each others company at one time. It was a good feeling! I was a bit rattled by your comment Sarah, it wasn't the right timing for me to read it, but you are entitled to your opinion too.

I wasn't plugging stuff in, in search of what was wrong with him, I actually stumbled across it by accident. I don't know if he is a narcissist anymore - maybe he is, maybe he isn't. I do know he hurt me, and it's been helpful to process it through writing.