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Originally Posted by CometRider
Hi Motts,
I am glad you find my post helpful.
The thing about her repeating, " ...you're are not listening to me." It just dawned on me that what she is really saying is, "... you are to subjugate yourself under me!"
Keep your person strong. Sometimes a strong person brings thunder when we need it.
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I agree. In essence, she was gaslighting me, "You're not listening to me!" translates to her really saying, "you aren't letting me bully you the way that I want to, to justify my crossing the line with you by stalking you on Facebook and calling a complete stranger (you) to yell at you."
I'm dreading class next week because one of the instructors. But I refuse not to go. I will report back on this thread what happens. Trust me, I will not bend!