Hi all,

I just need some advice on how to deal with a disrespectful family member.

I was in a 14 year relationship and have a son from this relationship we broke up 7 years ago and he lives in a different country with his mother,

I fell on hard times and had no choice but to go back to my mother's home my bother try to get me kicked out of the house I went mad when I heard this and told him to stay away from me and my son but he continues to disrespect me and my boundaries and wishes and stays in contact with my ex who has my son.

Also I found out from my other brother he has been back stabbing me and my other brother to a relative of ours and this with trying to get me kicked out of the house and trying to see my son behind my back is driving me mad I asked my ex to not let my brother and his wife see my son and she said that she does not have any problem with them.

So my question is would any of you have any advice on how to deal with this blatant disrespect and disrespecting my boundary after I told him to stay away from me and my son my son is 11.

Thanks for any advice you might have in dealing with this.