Don't wait until the breaking point. If you would like your life to be better than it is, give therapy a try. That's what breaking points are, anyway. Most people who become suicidal don't really want to die so much as they need their lives to be different than they are, and are stuck. What they want and need is change and a better life. But we don't have to wait until we run out of options to get help with making those changes.