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evildouble102 said:
Is there any chance that if we had sex without a condom I might not have it?
I'm really stressed out and disgusted with myself a lot at the moment; not to mention scared.

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Yes Evildouble,,there is a chance. Herpes is difficult(but not impossible) to transmit without an active "sore". If he was in a dormant stage you may indeed not be infected.

I would have a complete screen done for all STDs to put your mind at ease and begin a program of safe sex practices regardless of your emotional state.

The guilt/shame you are feeling is misplaced IMHO...we all make mistakes..the real tragedies are in not learning from them...

You have a chance at learning now..

With care,

Lenny