I'm sorry you're going through this, Kit. It sounds so painful.
If your T is still in training, then I can see both sides.
You have finally found a T that you feel can help you, and she may be feeling stretched.
However, that's no reason to make you feel rejected.
I think it's probably more to do with where she would stand legally than anything else.
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