I am so sorry Star...I know it is hard to let go of those we Love...so very hard...

But know that you are doing this out of Love,,for you and him...for he needs to see the costs of his behaviors before he has any hope of changing them..

I have watched many an addict over the years struggle with their disease....and at some point a willingness appears,,,without which no change is possible...

It is that willingness that you should look for,,it is accompanied by the waving of a white flag..

We are here...

Lenny