Thanks Cinnamonsun,
That's the weird part, she seemed so sure of what she wanted up until right after our last conversation. There was never any hesitation. We were continuously on the same path, or at least from my perspective we were.
Also, it isn't that she is trying to keep me a secret so much as she doesn't want her family all up in her business. Her family knows I am/was in the picture. She just didn't share much about me...none of their business.
She was in her marriage/relationship for 23 years, lived away from her family the whole time...wasn't that close to them. Only went back because she thought it was a better way for her to start a new life for herself and her son.
I don't know. I'm confused.
Trying to respect the promise I made to her to not add pressure/stress. If I make a promise I keep it, but....

BOM