My partner does a lot. He cooks cleans does DIY and I'm forever grateful.
Today we had some family over and he was cleaning. A lot. Even though the house was clean. He was putting up mirrors, cleaning the oven, mopping floors you name it! Yes the house looked absolutely amazing after and he cooked a roast dinner.
I had the baby. That was my 'job'. When the baby was sleeping I wanted to sit with a coffe and my older children for 10 mins. He told me I needed to clean mirrors and scrub work tops. I was annoyed but I did it.
He was insistent that he put some coat hooks up in the laundry room but we couldn't agree where and he snapped at me saying I've had months to think about it all. He was rude and swore. I told him he does not talk to me like that and he said I made him.
I was crying and he said he was going to walk out because I give him a hard time. Said I've ruined his day, the weekend. I've asked him what I've done and he couldn't tell me.
I think I'm depressed. I think there is something not right with me but I don't know what. I feel quite confused a lot of the time
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