Quote:
|
What do you think? If a partner spouse asks for a business loan, defines the terms, and signs a promissory note, should they be accountable?
|
Yes.
Quote:
|
He also asserts that because he pays for my cell phone, health insurance, and groceries, that he is repaying me.
|
What is your perspective on this claim?
Quote:
|
His position is that all money is "our" money and so I should never expect to be repaid for these business loans.
|
If he actually believed this, as opposed to saying it only when convenient for him to say it, he would have consulted you about the $80,000 car.
Quote:
|
He seems to be more interested in the opinions of neutral parties
|
Okay.
Good partners do not take money from their significant other in the guise of a loan, and then ultimately use the money to support their own private, expensive interests and tastes.
Also, good partners don't rage at their significant other. Good partners discuss in good faith.
[I expect him to find flaws in any neutral opinion that doesn't line up with his.]