Aviza,
I don't know you. I don't doubt what you say.
I'm sorry you get crapped on.
But it seems unfair to think all men would crap on you.
That's like saying all women are just out for a man's money.
I don't think either of the above are true.
One of my ex-wives truly thought that if there were checks in the checkbook, there was also money there.
She didn't work, but LOVED to spend the money I earned.
I was married to her for 9 years.
But you know what? I was the one that "chose" to get involved with her. I made that choice. I have to take responsibility for making that choice.

BOM