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Old Oct 20, 2021, 11:51 AM
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Originally Posted by Molinit View Post
To me, if someone asks me a lot of questions, it's because I didn't make what I expect clear enough. That's MY failure. Lots of questions is a clue to someone in a leadership role that instructions/expectations given to subordinates are too vague, too broad, etc. You did nothing wrong and you are allowed to state what is and isn't acceptable communication in the workplace. Yelling is not it.
@Molinit, thank you.

I agree that it was Ok that I said this to her. She needs to know where my limits are and what I will and will not put up with. I also agree that if her instructions are not clear enough, it's on her to make it more clear. She's impossible, I've realized - utterly impossible.
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Thanks for this!
Molinit