Rosanne,
I don't know you or your bio fam.
I can say that I have two kids, 33 and 34. Their mom turned them against me when I divorced her.
Relationships with them have been off and on, very volitile for last 30 years.
Daughter and I are reconnecting. Son and I likely never will.
For me, reconnecting is a good thing though the relationship will never be very close. still, she and her fam came out this Spring for 10 days. Had fun getting to know grandkids.
I think connecting/re-connecting with family is good, so long as you don't have to bastardize your beliefs to make it happen.
My recommendation is to take things slow, one day at a time, and be true to yourself in the process.

BOM