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purplebutterfly said:
How can you trust when everyone hurts you? So I would say no I do not trust anyone. To scared to let someone in, i have let people in, in the past but i just get hurt
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that's what i mean about the responsibility that it puts on the other person. nobody can live up to expectations of 100% trust, when our first obligations are always to ourselves. it doesnt have to be all or nothing, though... just trust to reasonable limits and be able to distinguish between a trust 'betrayal' and someone doing what's right for THEM, even if it's not to your benefit as well.
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