Wounded1, hunny,
I'm sorry you have this man who is hurtful to you, especially while you are in this delicate state of pregnancy. It is a time when a woman needs to feel safe...from my own experience.
I think there really ARE good men out there. I have some relatives..men younger than me who are so sweet and loyal. They have wives to whom they are devoted, though one has a wife who is a B.....! I don't know why he stays with her...such a wonderful man.
My daughter is married to a wonderful fella also, though she was previously married to a totally abusive man, and I am so relieved she is now happy and secure with the little twins.
As for "Adult Friend Finder," do you know that that is a pornographic site? Men actually display their erect penises in pictures there as well as women their private parts. It's obscene. I know this because several years ago, I met a man thru Match.com and we met for dinner. I felt uncomfortable with him, and did some research of his user name online, only to find him on Adult Friend Finder, where he was looking for free and casual "discreet" relationships. Needless to say, I told him what I had discovered and ceased communication.
Patty