The idea of a game sounds interesting... maybe a 'Simon says' type game? I'll see if I can think of anything.
I guess I'm probably not a brilliant listener either

Sometimes it's hard to listen, or hear things you don't want to hear, it's still so hard to understand. I'll try being more specific and seeing if I get any answers, thanks.
Hopefully journaling will work better soon, it's still a pretty new concept, and more often the littles prefer to draw in it then write. I'm kind of throwing the idea of therapy for DID around but I'm kind of scared of that.
Thank you for the help everyone.