It’s 5am here and I couldn’t read all the replies, and I don’t know if this is appropriate for you or your situation, but, if I were a disillusioned guy, there’s nothing that would make me love a girl more than if she made a strong sexual move and rocked my world, and told me she wants to do that every day. I don’t know if other guys are like that, but that would work for me. It may not solve all the problems but it may break the ice and set a very positive tone.

Provided of course that you want it that way.